Category: Community

Debating

Challenging Challenges (part 2)

Take a deep breath, and let’s make the dive into debating territory. What other arguments are there that I hear so often levelled against polyamory… It will all end in tears Relationships end, or people die. That’s what happens in life, regardless ...

One Man, Two Women

One Man, Two Women? You’re Doing It Wrong

If you’ve read any of my previous articles for Polytical, you’ll possibly be somewhat confused by this title. “But Isobel!” I hear you say, “Aren’t you part of a triad of one man and two women?” Yes! Yes I am. ...

Disclosure

Ask Polly: Disclosure

Welcome to Ask Polly, the UK's first poly advice column! We invite readers to send poly-related questions to our resident columnist, Polly, and she'll do her very best to offer advice. You're also very much encouraged to join the conversation ...

Anti-arrogance

I’m Poly ‘Cos I’m Better

This is an addendum to my old article entitled "I'm Better 'Cos I'm Poly". I don't entirely want to retract my previous statements because I do feel that being in an non-mainstream culture still creates defensiveness when trying to explain ...

Poly Speed Dating

Organising Poly Speed Dating UK

So, I co-ran the first every Poly Speed Dating in the UK. It was quite an evening, but for myself and Ludi the whole thing kicked off around late October last year, when Ludi was in San Francisco making friends ...

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On Being Insecure

It takes a while, and maybe a bit of pointing out before you realise it, but I think there's a huge contradiction within the Poly community. When I was just starting out and going to a lot of events, I ...

yesno

Challenging Challenges (part 1)

We polyamorous and other ethically non-monogamous folks are used to being criticised, challenged and questioned about our love styles. It's an inevitable part of being a member of a minority group, especially one which has had so little publicity until ...

threesome

(It’s not just) About The Sex

"You're poly? Awesome! Want to fuck?" Don't you just love it when someone asks this question? My favourite part is the incredulity when I say that, actually, no, I'm not interested but thank you very much for the offer. I'm sure this ...

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Ask Polly: Poly Speed Dating

Welcome to Ask Polly, the UK's first poly advice column! We invite readers to send poly-related questions to our resident columnist, Polly, and she'll do her very best to offer advice. You're also very much encouraged to join the conversation ...

making-assumptions

Gambling with Assumptions

I'm a bit of a gambler, I've discovered. Actually, we all are. We all engage in a rather risky, yet potentially very rewarding gamble several times a day. We can either thoroughly enjoy ourselves playing this game of chance, or ...

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