Category: Philosophy

Debating

Challenging Challenges (part 2)

Take a deep breath, and let’s make the dive into debating territory. What other arguments are there that I hear so often levelled against polyamory… It will all end in tears Relationships end, or people die. That’s what happens in life, regardless ...

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The Unicorn, or Fantasy and Reality

Ah, that favourite of poly fantasies: the unicorn. We've all heard of them, that mythical creature who will somehow magically develop both romantic and sexual attraction for both members of an extant couple. There are a few required tropes that must ...

Agape

Polyosophy – Ancient Greek conceptions of love

So while I plough on through Rousseau's Social Contract (harder going than I remember... More evidence I need to kick my brain back into action) here are some quick thoughts on love. In modern English, we have (roughly) one word for ...

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So, am I poly?

Why entering a polyamorous relationship is like coming to terms with your sexuality, and why it's not. I am a liberal arts student, which means that I essentially earn my (currently metaphorical) bread and butter by finding a way to make ...

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Polyosophy – Mill: On Liberty

Originally posted on closeenoughtoread.wordpress.com So, this is the first in a series of posts looking at philosophical perspectives on ethical non-monogamy. A note on terms: to avoid spelling it out every time, I’ll refer to ‘non-monogamy’ to included all the varying ...

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Why (my) Polyamory is Feminist

When people who have no experience of polyamory find out I am in a non-monogamous relationship their first reaction is often pity. After my colleagues at a new job found out I had two boyfriends one of their first reactions ...