Category: spirituality

shame-on-you

Something about Working with Shame

Part of me wishes Faun would realise how much this conversation hurts me. I know the old adage about the heart breaking is an overused one, but the feeling I get when he tells me the passion may be, or ...

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God is Love

I was reading a forum discussion last week about polyamory and spiritual/religious practices. The discussion was a few years old and I didn't want to resurrect it, but one post caught my eye. This post stated that, by definition, a ...

responsibility

Something About Responsibility

When Faun tells me he’s afraid of losing his attraction for me, or that there is a block in his desire for me, the cold sets in. Waves of chills running up from my toes and engulfing my torso. I’m ...

faith-hope-love

Quiet Radicals Living A Normal Life

Yesterday morning, I woke in bed to the sounds of my young daughter playing in the centre room of our flat. I felt my wife's arms encircling me from behind, and could feel the soft fabric of my partner's pyjamas ...

heart-on-fire

Keeping the Home Fires Alight: Introduction

A serialised personal journey and practical guide in taking sex deeper in long-term primary partnership. The story so far: On the one hand, you have me. Intimacy coach, tantra facilitator, lapsed artist, aspiring author, and all round spiritual nutcase, once sited by ...