Category: spirituality
Something about Working with Shame
Part of me wishes Faun would realise how much this conversation hurts me. I know the old adage about the heart breaking is an overused one, but the feeling I get when he tells me the passion may be, or ...
God is Love
I was reading a forum discussion last week about polyamory and spiritual/religious practices. The discussion was a few years old and I didn't want to resurrect it, but one post caught my eye. This post stated that, by definition, a ...
Something About Responsibility
When Faun tells me he’s afraid of losing his attraction for me, or that there is a block in his desire for me, the cold sets in. Waves of chills running up from my toes and engulfing my torso. I’m ...
Quiet Radicals Living A Normal Life
Yesterday morning, I woke in bed to the sounds of my young daughter playing in the centre room of our flat. I felt my wife's arms encircling me from behind, and could feel the soft fabric of my partner's pyjamas ...
Keeping the Home Fires Alight: Introduction
A serialised personal journey and practical guide in taking sex deeper in long-term primary partnership. The story so far: On the one hand, you have me. Intimacy coach, tantra facilitator, lapsed artist, aspiring author, and all round spiritual nutcase, once sited by ...




